Just a piece of paper. It shouldn’t knock my anxiety levels out of the park. And yet it does.
Just a piece of paper planning out our son’s educational path for the rest of his secondary educational career.
Yes, there is feeling of it being unreal that a child of mine would be starting High School next year, but that’s not what triggered me.
This paper is filled with lists of classes I would dearly love to see my son take, but if the last 3 years are any indication, Algebra, Chemistry, Biology, Spanish and more are not in his future. Yet these are the classes he is expected to take and pass in the next 4 years.
My heart is filled with trepidation, and stark fear as I envision the fights to get him to go to school if this is the path forward they have planned for him. Yes, he dearly wants to be a college professor of 16th to 18th century history. I think he could be great at it, and this is the track he needs to take if he is going to realize this dream.
I look at all the other tracks that they have laid out for students, but none of those are any more likely to bring less resistance to going to school and preforming the work necessary to achieve those career paths.
As a Mom who has been fighting for years for her child, trying- not so much to make the way easier for him as to make it possible for him to gain an education, I’m quickly finding I’m in the place where I am out of my depth. Where I don’t know what to advocate for anymore. I don’t know how to help him reach this next stage in life- independence.
And so my anxiety triggers, my Mama Bear instincts roar. And all I can do is pray that we find a way through.
